Relationship and trust · Also called grandparent scam, family emergency scam, AI voice clone scam, distress scam
Family emergency and grandparent scam
A family emergency scam is a call or message from someone pretending to be a grandchild, child, or other relative in trouble, often in jail or after an accident, who needs money fast and secretly. Scammers can now use AI to clone a loved one's voice from a short clip, so the call can sound real.
How it works
- The scammer gathers details about the family, often from social media, and may clone a relative's voice from a short audio or video clip.
- A panicked call says the relative has been arrested, injured, or stranded, and a second person may pose as a lawyer, officer, or doctor.
- The victim is told the matter is urgent and must be kept secret, even from other family members.
- Payment is demanded by cash, gift cards, wire transfer, cryptocurrency, or a courier who comes to the door.
Red flags
- A relative calls in a crisis and needs money immediately, often late at night.
- You are told not to tell anyone else in the family.
- Someone claiming to be a lawyer, police officer, or bail agent takes over the call.
- You are asked to pay with cash, gift cards, a wire transfer, cryptocurrency, or by handing money to a courier.
If you are targeted
- Stop contact: hang up and do not send money until you have checked the story.
- Call or message your relative, or another family member, on a number you already know is theirs.
- If you already paid, contact your bank or the gift card company straight away, and the police if a courier collected cash.
- Report it. Our Report a scam page lists where to report in your country, such as ic3.gov and ReportFraud.ftc.gov in the US.
- Be wary of anyone who later offers recovery of the money for a fee, which is a second scam.
Prevention
For individuals
- Agree a family code word or phrase now, and ask for it on any emergency call.
- Ask a question only the real person would know, and call them back on a number you already have.
- Limit public videos and voice clips, and keep family details off public social media where you can.
For organisations
- Banks and gift card retailers can ask older customers making urgent withdrawals or large gift card purchases whether someone has asked them to keep it secret.
- Phone carriers can label and block spoofed calls that pretend to come from known numbers.
By the numbers
Figures are for the reporting category this scam falls under, not this scam alone.
| Confidence and romance scam losses reported to the FBI IC3 in 2025 | $929.3M | US, 2025, FBI IC3 |
| Losses in FBI IC3 complaints mentioning AI in 2025 (overlaps other categories, never summed) | $893.3M | US, 2025, FBI IC3 |
| Losses reported to the FBI IC3 in 2025 by people aged 60 and over (part of Losses reported to the FBI IC3 in 2025) | $7.75B | US, 2025, FBI IC3 |
| Imposter scam losses reported to the FTC in 2025 (more than this amount) | $3.5B | US, 2025, FTC |
Real cases
No documented case in the atlas yet. New cases are added as they are sourced.
Delivered through: Voice phishing (vishing)
How official datasets classify it
- FBI IC3
- Confidence/Romance
- FTC
- Family & Friend Imposters
Questions
- Can scammers really clone a family member's voice?
- Yes. The FTC and FBI warn that a short audio clip is enough for AI tools to imitate a loved one's voice, so a familiar voice is not proof of who is calling.
- How do I protect my family from voice clone scams?
- Agree a secret word or phrase with your family and ask for it in any emergency call. Always hang up and call the person back on a number you know.